I’m a pretty sensitive person. I have emotions. I feel things. But one thing I could really care less about are invitations. I will not be offended if you don’t invite me to your wedding, bridal shower, or bachelorette party. Weddings are damn expensive, anywhere from $50 – 150 per person depending on what you’re serving, so it’s a privilege to be invited. But for some reason, there are people who have the audacity to ask why they’re not invited, get bitter about it, or hold a grudge.
Dear people, grow the fuck up. Not everything is about you. Maybe they can’t afford to invite a lot of people. Maybe they have 100 family members. Whatever the reason is, lighten up and move on. Don’t make it personal, because it’s not. And guess what, you don’t have to invite them to your wedding then! There, even stevens if you want to get all childish about it.
And before you get all offended in the first place, ask yourself when was the last time you had a great meaningful conversation with that person? Have you even spoken to them in the past year? If the answer is no, well then there you have it. There’s really no reason you should’ve been invited in the first place.